Author: Dr. Sauad M. Al-Sabah
Publication: Dr. Darabi Foundation
Date:
They differed with me over what
times we are living in.
It is not a democracy when a man
can talk about politics without anyone threatening him.
Democracy is when a woman can talk
of her lover without anyone killing her. Dr. Sauad M. Al-Sabah
I am a Moslem woman. I have no face.
I have no identity. At age 9, based on lunar year (a lunar year is twelve
months of 28 days each or 336 days) or, when I am actually 8 years and
8 months old, I am considered an adult. Being an adult means that I have
to adhere with Islamic laws as stated below.
I have to pray five times a day,
fast one month out of the year and cover myself from head to toe in yards
of black fabric. I am eligible to be married and can be punished for any
wrong doing. I can be incarcerated and, if needed, executed for my crimes,
even political ones.
Islam's law - that Allah sent down
to his messenger Muhammad - came to announce that women (exactly like men)
are full human beings. Women (like men) are therefore required to follow
the way appointed by Allah.
"A woman (like a man) is therefore
obligated with all three degrees of this religion: Islam (outward submission
to Allah), iman (inward faith in Allah), and ihsan (perfection of worship
of Allah)".
"Women have such honorable rights
as obligations, but men have a (single) degree above them". The Koran 2:228
"Men are the managers of the affairs
of women because Allah has preferred men over women and women were expended
of their Rights". The Koran 4:34
Islam believes and promotes only
one relationship between male and female and that is the relation of lust.
"If a man and a woman are alone
in one place, the third person present is the devil". Prophet Mohammed
I am not allowed to swim, ski, ride
a bike, dance, learn to play musical instruments, practice gymnastics,
or any other sport. I am not even permitted to watch men play sports, either
in the stadium and/or on television.
I am not permitted to participate
in Olympic games.
>From age 7, I am segregated from
all males in and out of my extended family.
My father, grandfather, uncles,
brothers or my male cousins are not allowed to be present at any ceremonies
for my accomplishments. They will not be allowed to participate in my birthday
parties.
I have to study under female teachers
and professors. However, since women of prior generations were not allowed
to go to school, there are not that many qualified women teachers and professors.
Male professors must teach me from behind a wall.
I am to be treated by female doctors.
Go to female dentists. And if there are none, then I have to go without
or I must be examined through some sort of divider.
I am not allowed to practice birth
control or have abortions, even if carrying or having a child means I have
to die.
My worth is based on the Islamic
Laws of Retribution, 24th edition, December 1982, as half of a man. It
doesn't matter who I am, how educated I am, and what earning potential
I may have in my life. My worth is half of a man, any man.
According to clauses 33 and 91 of
the law in respect, Qasas (The Islamic Retribution Bill) and its boundaries,
the value of woman is considered only half as much as the value of a man.
Article 1: dieh or blood money paid
to the victim or next of kin for as compensation for bodily injury or murder
of a relative.
The Islamic Law of Retribution
In the old Islamic laws, recently
placed into practice by the Islamic Republic of Iran, the worth of a man's
life is equal to the market value of 100 camels or 200 cows and that of
a woman is equal to half of the man's, 50 camels or 100 cows.
The clause number 6 regarding the
dieh (cash value of the fine) states that the cash fine for murdering a
woman intentionally or unintentionally is half as much as for a man. The
same clause adds that if a man intentionally murders a woman and the guardian
of the woman himself is not able to pay half of the Dieh (the value of
50 camels or 100 cows, the difference between the value of a man to that
of a woman's life) to the murderer, the murderer will be exempted from
retribution.
New Legal Standing: Pursuant to
article 85 of the constitution, the Islamic penal code was implemented
in December 1981. According to article 300, blood money or dieh, a sum
paid to the next of kin as compensation for the murder of a relative, is
twice as much in the case of a murdered man as in the case of a woman.
The number of witnesses required to prove a crime is higher if the witnesses
are female. For example, article 237 of the penal code states that first
degree murder must be proven by testimony of two just men and evidence
for second- degree murder or manslaughter requires the testimony of two
just men, or one just man and two just women, or of one just man and the
accuser.
My testimony in a court of law is
equal to half of that of a man. In most countries I don't vote and I don't
get elected to office. And if I do, it does not mean much. I inherit only
half as much as my male siblings.
I cannot get custody of my children.
Even if their father dies. In the case of divorce or death I have to surrender
my children to their father and/or his family.
I cannot travel, work, go to college,
join organizations, even visit my friends and relatives without my father
or husband's permission.
I must live where my husband desires.
I am banned from studies such as
engineering, agriculture, archaeology, restoration of the historic monuments
and handicrafts, and many other fields. I am not allowed to become a judge.
Under the terms of Koranic law,
any judge fulfilling the seven requirements (that he have reached puberty,
be a believer, know the Koranic laws perfectly, be just, and not be affected
by amnesia, or be a bastard, or be of the female sex) is qualified to dispense
justice in any type of case.
I have no right to choose the clothing
I wear in public. This is done by the Office of the Islamic Guidance which
sets the color, the style, and the accessories for women and girls as young
as 6 years of age.
I will get arrested, beaten, and
sometimes even executed if I wear make-up, nylons, bright colors and specifically
the color of red.
I cannot choose my mate and am not
permitted to divorce him if things did not work out.
According to Khomeini, the Iranian
Islamic Imam, "The most suitable time for a girl to get married is the
time when the girl can have her first menstrual period in her husband's
house rather than her father's".
I have to meet all my husband's
desires including the sexual ones. And if I refuse he has the right to
deny me food, shelter, and all of life's necessities. I have to say yes
every time he wants to have sex.
According to Hojatoleslam Imani,
Religious Leader in Iran. "A woman should endure any violence or torture
imposed on her by her husband for she is fully at his disposal. Without
his permission she may not leave her house even for a good action (such
as charitable work). Otherwise her prayers and devotions will not be accepted
by God and curses of heaven and earth will fall upon her".
My husband can divorce me without
my knowledge and by the Islamic law he is required to support me for only
100 days. And if he dies, I am entitled to 1/8 of his Estate.
I can only ask for divorce if my
husband is impotent, if he does not have sex with me at least one night
in every forty nights, and if he refuses to provide me with a minimum standard
of living.
My husband can have four permanent
wives and if he is from Shi'i sect, he can have as many temporary wives
as he wants.
Koran says that "Men your wives
are your tillage. Go into your tillage anyway you want". This means that
a man is allowed to sodomise his wife and she cannot complain.
In some countries they even mutilate,
cut and sew my female sexual parts in order to control and regulate my
sexual desire.
According to the Islamic Laws, I
am supposed to be seen outside of my home three times in my life. When
I am born, when I get married and when I die.
I have no explanation on why God
denied me everything and made men in charge of me, if there is a God. I
don't believe there ever was one.
In Islam, the age of majority for
a girl is 9 years and for a boy is 15 years. This means that a 9 year old
girl and a 15 year old boy are considered to have the same level of maturity.
Now, if girls reach maturity six years earlier than boys, then why did
God place men in charge of women? Was there something wrong with God's
Judgment?
In some Islamic countries such as
Iran, if I am arrested for wearing make-up, the guards will force me to
clean my face with cotton balls rubbed in pieces of glass. This cuts my
face. The barbaric revolutionary guard, while watching the blood run out
of my flesh, will tell me, "next time you think about this and will not
wear it".
As a political prisoner I will be
used as a concubine for the revolutionary guards. In case I am condemned
to death I will not undergo the sentence as long as I am a virgin. Thus
I will be systematically raped before the sentence is executed. Mullahs
believe that virgin girls who die go to heaven but politically inclined
girls are ungodly creatures and they do not deserve to go to heaven, therefore
they are raped so that the Mullah's can be sure that they indeed will be
sent to hell.
In Islam, if a 6 or 7 year old girl
is raped by an adult man, she will be the one that gets punished. It is
her fault because she provoked it. The parents then will burn or kill her
because she has dishonored the family.
It has been said that the Moslem
Prophet got very upset one day noticing his wives flirting with men who
visited him and ordered women to stay behind a dividing curtain when speaking
with men. The idea of hijab, the covering up of women, became a law in
Islamic countries from that day.
In 1991, the Prosecutor-General
of Iran, declared that "anyone who rejects the principle of hijab is an
apostate and the punishment for an apostate under Islamic law is death."
Polygamy is legal in Islam. A man
may marry "four Permanent" and as many "Provisional" or temporary wives
as he desires.
"Marry such women as seem good to
you, two, three, four; but if you fear you will not be equitable, then
only one, or what your right hands own; so it is likelier you will not
be partial". The Koran 4:3 "Most Europeans have mistresses. Why should
we suppress human instincts? A rooster satisfies several hens, an stallion
several mares. A woman is unavailable during certain periods where as a
man is always active....", Ayatollah Ghomi, LE MONDE, January 20, 1979.